Help, My Relationship is Exploding!

Why don't men pay attention when we say stuff? Why does it seem they tune us out, stop listening altogether, or misunderstand what we're getting at, when we try to solve something with them by talking it through?
In this episode, we'll talk about some unusual new ways of thinking about a very old problem. Who knows; you just might be surprised by what comes up here. 

Oooh, solving money issues is a tricky challenge, don't you think? It's definitely, one of the all-time most complicated partnership problems to solve in a way that lasts. And as with all relationship questions, I don't take the typical approach. 
What do most couples do when they can't solve their money issues? They fight. Or instead, maybe the woman suffers in silence, or even pays the bills by herself; because that seems easier than trying to solve something with him, which clearly has no easy answers. As usual, I've got some unusual strategies to offer you, that just might take you to a new place. 

Today, we get into the nitty gritty, boots-on-the-ground topic of lying, oh my. We'll look carefully at the distinction between so-called white lies, and the more poisonous versions of deception, which some people just can't seem to resist, no matter how many people they might hurt along the way. I bring up some really hair-raising examples of outrageous deception, for your consideration. If you've been wondering, 'does he tell me the truth?' Then this is an episode that you won't want to miss. 

What do you do, when there's too much uncomfortable 'dead air' in your connection; places where you can't tell the truth because it's going to start an argument or take your partnership off into the weeds? Need real solutions to get your relationship back on track?
Never fear, Psychic Yuzu has been there before you, and she's worked out not just what goes wrong and why things go out of whack--but what you need to do, to genuinely transform things for the better. Even if you feel like you're walking on eggshells, there are ways to improve not just your life, but help to lift and genuinely support your relationship, too. Join me to find out how.

In this episode, we cover some rather intense stuff, but of course we do it gently. Meaning; we look at what do you do, when someone you care about says that you messed up, and they come at you in a way that bothers you--then what? Or what if someone you don't like very much, verbally rakes you over the coals? Ouch.
Yes, we're going to go there.
I've got strategies that work, not just to diffuse or maybe even deflect criticism that might be aimed in your direction, but actually to keep it from even coming your way to begin with, wow.
Plus, I'll share what to say that quickly diffuses your own frustration and sense of hurt, and also offer some great strategies that will gently change your relationship life, all to the good, whether you're being criticized, or not. 

We all know super-annoying people, right? Those who tread on your toes without even noticing it, ouch. When should you speak up? When should you hold your peace? This is really, a pretty hard question. After considering this challenge for a lifetime, I've got some boots-on-the-ground solutions for you, approaches that work in real time. So if you have to deal with someone who's utterly selfish, oblivious, or yes; even a blowhard or a jerk, I've got strategies you can use, that actually work. You can find peace, stand your ground, and feel great about how you've handled things. 

Let's talk about the difference between rushing toward something that's maybe, just a little too good to be true; versus great things which lie just ahead and can happen quite naturally, without a lot of stress or effort. 
Sometimes, when it comes to the partnership of a lifetime, we think we have to 'help' things turn out right, so we might try too hard, fill in too many gaps, and even overlook things we really need to pay attention to. 
And sometimes, either single or partnered women suspect that they've met a genuine soul mate. Because yes; soul mates are a real thing.
In those cases, is it okay to hurry more quickly into a serious and permanent connection? Find out the truth here.

Ever feel like no matter what you try, your most precious dreams just keep stalling out? Yes, including the dream of a great relationship, whether you're single or partnered. In this episode, find out what to do differently, to truly get better results. And, could it be the case that you just might be doing a few things that are getting in the way of your dreams coming true? Once you know both what works and what doesn't, you'll easily get better results. 
Follow the simple yet effective steps I offer you, to get life-changing happiness results in as little as 30 days. I'll show you just what to do to begin the process of activating your most important dreams. Take these steps, and watch your dreams beginning to form and then later to appear, right before your eyes, in record time.

Oh, this one's a doozey! Is your guy, almost always continually focused on what he wants and what he feels, and is he trying you to agree that you should go along with him--even when you definitely don't feel the same? Sure: we're all self-interested. But when does self-interest, shade off into hogging more than your fair share, or even into taking advantage? We'll look at these questions and others of the same ilk, in this crucial episode. 

So many women want to know--where did the guy go; the guy that I was dating until last week (or yesterday, maybe)? You've seen it and I've seen it too. Men disappear just when things seem to be getting to the good part. Just about the very time that you're feeling like you're really 'into him.' But hey, men can also disappear once you're partnered. He vanishes into his video games, or maybe it's sports. You can see him in the room but he's really, not there at all. Women ask me all the time--what the tarnation is going on here? Find real answers here.