Help, My Relationship is Exploding!

Why does he get snappish, when you're just innocently trying to talk something through? Why does he unexpectedly balk, apparently for no reason, when you need his attention or need his support? Yes, I 'totally' know that he's not being reasonable. The problem though, is that things can go from bad to worse if suddenly, both of you are reacting. This is the very place where relationships go off the rails, sometimes never to return to the right place.
Happily, I can show you what to do when you find yourself in this awkward, terrible moment. The good news is, it's fixable, and the power is in your hands. 

What if, too much of your guy's conversation feels like a downer? Do you sometimes find yourself getting drawn in, and then spending too much time trying to talk him out of his bad mood? Ouch.
But I've got good news--even though you're a good partner, you just don't need to put up with all that complaining. Here, you'll find the strategies which can gently and simply point him in a happier direction, moving both of you into a more optimistic space, over time. Plus: in order to protect your happiness, we'll also go over the specific circumstances when listening truly 'won't' make anything better. 

What do you do, if your guy's starting to get so stout, that it's getting worrisome? A client recently told me in confidence that she's losing interest in intimacy with her man, because his weight is inching up too much. "He's just getting too fat and it turns me off," was how she put it.
When it comes to problems like this, so many of the things that a woman does to try to help her man lose a little weight, simply backfire. Because if you say or do the 'wrong' things, you get resentment and pushback, rather than success. Happily though, I've got solutions that will not only help him slim down, but will build even more happiness into your connection with him, all along the way. 

Have you ever run into 'this' sticky situation? What if you see a problem developing, so you try to share the worrisome issue with your man in good faith, but he just ignores you? And worse, when the problem does blow up, he pretends that you were the one who should've fixed it all along? All I can say is, argh. 
A girl's gotta wonder: why does this weird problem happen, and what should you do when it does? Amazingly, real solutions do exist. When he keeps pointing the finger of blame--even though all the time it was really him who messed up--I'm here to help you figure out the best strategy. The remedy won't take hold over night, but: this solution does work. And, it will definitely make your life easier.

When a man is clearly not listening, but you sincerely believe that he should be, well--what's going on? Is he being rude, selfish or maybe, self-absorbed? 
Sure, that might look like the easy answer. But, what if 'something else' is really what's happening? The answers to this time-worn question, might genuinely surprise you. Because usually, tuning you out, is really 'symptomatic' of something else entirely. Find out what; here.

What if he frequently says he's going to do something, but then, somehow it doesn't happen? Worse, he doesn't remember that the two of you reached an agreement about that thing; so all you can say is, 'huh, what's going on?'
What my clients have asked me, is does my man do this on purpose, and is it a problem that I should worry about? What they really want to know is; is his behavior nefarious, or is it something that's innocent and unintentional? Here's the answer: most of the time saying one thing and doing another is just benign, although sometimes--it's truly a big red flag. Listen in, to find out which of these situations is the one you're looking at, in your own life. 

I know it's truly annoying when your man seems to prefer being away, more than he likes to spend time doing things with you. You gotta wonder; why in the world would he stay glued to his desk, holed up in the garage working on a car, or off somewhere on a business trip, instead of snuggled up with you, cozy and at home? What's up with that, anyway? 
The answers I share in this episode, could easily surprise you. Find out what's going on, here. 

What if your guy has blundered in the past, by saying things that make you want to sink into the floor, when you're out with friends--or worse, sitting in your favorite auntie's living room? What if, he sticks his foot in his mouth and doesn't even notice it? In a terrible case like that, what intelligent recourse do you have?
And why, exactly, do men make this mistake in the first place; what's going on? In this episode, we look at all the elements, together. Here, we look at exactly the right kind of boundary setting and yes; appropriate damage control, creating a real change going forward. 

Some people, sometimes, have parts of their lives that don't function, so much so that you just might have to solve, repair, or otherwise remedy what they can't figure out, apparently to save their lives (argh). What's going on here? 
First question, is how bad is it? Second question, how much time do you have to carve out for damage control that isn't really yours at all? Third question is, does his carelessness constantly mess up your life? Because there's a bigger truth: many of us, only get certain things right, some of the time. If you need help sorting out 'how much is too much', I've got answers for you, answers that work to actually solve things. 

I get it, you absolutely hate it when he notices an attractive woman and then stares at her--especially when he's with you, right? But, there's more going on here than meets the eye. And yeah, sometimes when he looks at another woman, that action matters in a way that should probably alert you to a deeper problem. Most of the time though, it's nothing really to worry about (even though maybe it hurts your feelings). Of course, the question is, which is which? Find out in this episode.